Comments on: Ever heard the tale of the frog & the scorpion? http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/ Goal Setting and Productivity for People Who Like Technology Tue, 30 Oct 2012 21:19:47 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Super sexy http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-54623 Super sexy Tue, 11 Sep 2012 03:28:47 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-54623 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Ever heard the tale of the frog & the scorpion? - http://t.co/hI2R9Auj</span></span> Ever heard the tale of the frog &amp; the scorpion? – http://t.co/hI2R9Auj

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By: Arnie Snider http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-54594 Arnie Snider Wed, 01 Aug 2012 20:04:16 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-54594 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">Ever heard the tale of the frog & the scorpion? - http://t.co/GMg4x8g5</span></span> Ever heard the tale of the frog & the scorpion? – http://t.co/GMg4x8g5

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By: Donna http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-53190 Donna Sat, 31 Oct 2009 15:16:36 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-53190 I reunited with a friend I knew long ago. He told me he had an ineptitude for hurting people verbally. He shared the fable with me and identified himself with the scorpion. Ironically, I have the frog personality. We have been writing- over 100 posts in 2 months. And we have had times when he hurt me, but I don't believe he does it knowingly. He has actually changed over time and become more sensitive to me. I hope that "nature" can be overcome. Humans aren't really scorpions. I reunited with a friend I knew long ago. He told me he had an ineptitude for hurting people verbally. He shared the fable with me and identified himself with the scorpion. Ironically, I have the frog personality. We have been writing- over 100 posts in 2 months. And we have had times when he hurt me, but I don’t believe he does it knowingly. He has actually changed over time and become more sensitive to me. I hope that “nature” can be overcome. Humans aren’t really scorpions.

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By: Brad Isaac http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-50699 Brad Isaac Mon, 25 May 2009 16:17:46 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-50699 Annette, sorry for your pain. I don't have many answers about why scorpions are the way they are. But I will say this. Seems to me an ordained minister should be better equipped to deal with human relationships than to simply drop them an email. Annette, sorry for your pain. I don’t have many answers about why scorpions are the way they are. But I will say this. Seems to me an ordained minister should be better equipped to deal with human relationships than to simply drop them an email.

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By: Annette http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-50698 Annette Mon, 25 May 2009 15:57:15 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-50698 I just had a loving 4 year relationship with someone who left without talking via an email. Then I got this parable from him. It's very hurtful. How can a scorpion allow someone to carry them lovingly for 4 years and then hurt them so. Can people with such natures not really change? If they are so hurtful then why don't they try to work on themselves, to become better people? And the ironic thing is he is an "ordained minister"! I just had a loving 4 year relationship with someone who left without talking via an email. Then I got this parable from him. It’s very hurtful. How can a scorpion allow someone to carry them lovingly for 4 years and then hurt them so.

Can people with such natures not really change? If they are so hurtful then why don’t they try to work on themselves, to become better people?

And the ironic thing is he is an “ordained minister”!

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By: Ybrok Reffahs http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-1072 Ybrok Reffahs Mon, 28 Aug 2006 01:45:54 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-1072 If it sounds to good to be true...then it probably is! If it sounds to good to be true…then it probably is!

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By: Brad Isaac http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-1045 Brad Isaac Mon, 21 Aug 2006 19:36:13 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-1045 Jason, I added that comment to the most recent post on the subject. Bill, I am glad you posted this. I didn't want to be the one who mentioned you can usually sense a scorpion. When you feel it in your gut about someone, think scorpion and get away. I heard these types of people once described as "image masters" they present exactly the type of image they want you to see - all the while working on a plan that meets their own selfish needs. Jason, I added that comment to the most recent post on the subject.

Bill, I am glad you posted this. I didn’t want to be the one who mentioned you can usually sense a scorpion. When you feel it in your gut about someone, think scorpion and get away.

I heard these types of people once described as “image masters” they present exactly the type of image they want you to see – all the while working on a plan that meets their own selfish needs.

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By: Bill Berry http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-1044 Bill Berry Sun, 20 Aug 2006 02:14:21 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-1044 Sometimes the answer is right in front of you. You know the answer. It enters your mind, it's on the tip of your tongue. And then you talk yourself out of it. You add in beliefs, politics, whatever. But the first answer, the one in your gut is the right one. You should stick with it. If you <b>know</b> someone can't be trusted (as the frog knew about the scorpion), don't trust them, certainly not with your life or anything else important. Misplaced trust can have fatal consequences. As Jack Welch's mother used to say to him when he was a kid, "Jackie, don't kid yourself!" Sometimes the answer is right in front of you. You know the answer. It enters your mind, it’s on the tip of your tongue.

And then you talk yourself out of it. You add in beliefs, politics, whatever.

But the first answer, the one in your gut is the right one. You should stick with it.

If you know someone can’t be trusted (as the frog knew about the scorpion), don’t trust them, certainly not with your life or anything else important. Misplaced trust can have fatal consequences.

As Jack Welch’s mother used to say to him when he was a kid, “Jackie, don’t kid yourself!”

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By: joey http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-1043 joey Fri, 18 Aug 2006 03:00:45 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-1043 Hi Brad, I agree that Premak's meaning is far better. I was just surprised at how fast my pessimistic side appeared. Hi Brad,
I agree that Premak’s meaning is far better. I was just surprised at how fast my pessimistic side appeared.

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By: Jason Clarke http://persistenceunlimited.com/2006/08/ever-heard-the-tale-of-the-frog-the-scorpion/comment-page-1/#comment-1042 Jason Clarke Thu, 17 Aug 2006 23:40:33 +0000 http://persistenceunlimited.com/?p=533#comment-1042 I remember my dad telling me that parable many times, but he always added an extra sentence to the scorpion's final words. "Because I'm a scorpion. It's in my nature." I think that extra "it's in my nature" goes a long way towards helping people understand the point of the story. I remember my dad telling me that parable many times, but he always added an extra sentence to the scorpion’s final words.

“Because I’m a scorpion. It’s in my nature.”

I think that extra “it’s in my nature” goes a long way towards helping people understand the point of the story.

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