Project Dream Dating 2007

Do you want to discover some surefire dating strategies that really work? If you are tired of the “same old” dating advice that falls flat, then read on…

Since there was such an overwhelmingly positive response from my post 10 First Date Blunders That Blow It Every Time. I concluded that there is a large number of singles who visit this site. For that reason, I am launching a new series called Project Dream Dating which will accomplish several major goals.

1. If you are tired of the games, manipulations and jumping through hoops that makes dating a total nightmare, this series will breathe new life into dating. Dating will become an exciting adventure for you.

2. If you are shy, new to the dating scene or recently divorced, it will give you some solid dating advice you can use to meet people and form lasting relationships.

3. It will also delve into building a relationship into a long time partnership.

4. How to end a relationship if you have to.

Warning: Reading this series could get you married! I accept no responsibility for unexpected wedding expenses, pesky in-laws or out of control bachelor(ette) parties. Due to my work in the early 1990s I have at least several hundred people who credit me with their marriage if not more (Long story). So this is serious stuff. Fun stuff too. But serious and fun… and dead serious, with some fun thrown in…. just so you know…. Seriously

Warning #2: If you are looking for a bunch of pick up lines, one night stand advice or other cheap and tawdry info, you’ll find none of it here. Off with ye!

A few ground rules.

1. Project Dream Dating 2007 will likely delight many and offend a few. Proceed accordingly – and please – no whining.

2. Keep an open mind. I am going to give you perspective on what really works, and I am going to shatter myths that don’t . You may be embarrassed at how simple meeting others is after you read this.

3. Experiment – Listen up shy people. I will be giving everyone some plans and experiments that I want you try. I will make them as comfortable to do as possible, but what I want from my shy readers is to treat these as “experiments”.

Why do we experiment? The goal of an experiment is to get a result.

A result is neither good nor bad. It is just a result. For example, a shy man may be terrified by the advice “walk up to that beautiful woman and ask her out.” But he probably wouldn’t feel such terror over an experiment “Say ‘hi’ to a bank teller and remember the results of the experiment.”

Here’s the good news – all of the results you get will be good. Even if they don’t feel good at the time. Each result you get is a stepping stone toward the relationship you want. Before long, you’ll be resisting other’s charms rather than them resisting yours. Really!

So I expect participation. If you don’t participate, you are just reading. Reading won’t do it.

Help! I need somebody… – The Beatles

If you know someone who is single and struggling, be a hero and direct them to this series. They’ll thank you for it. And be sure you don’t miss a post. Subscribe to my RSS feed today.

Other posts in this Series:

Part 2: Project Dream Dating 2007 Background On Shyness

Part 3: Know Who You Are Looking For

Part 4: Five Steps To Being In The Right Place At The Right Time

Part 5: Shyness Buster #1

Part 6: Shyness Buster #2

Part 7: Know This Before You Ask Someone On a First Date  

Part 8: How to Ask Someone Out for a Date